A couple of days ago, I found out that my sister is in fact planning on coming back with the help of my dad. I will go ahead and admit that when I heard this, I was furious. I hate the fact that my poor niece and nephew have to be dragged around like ragdolls that don't mean anything. They have been through so much already and I am tired of them being treated like this. While I know that it's not good to live in a household knowing that your parents don't love each other and aren't nice to each other, but it's also not good to just ship them place to place handing them off to one another every other day.
It has been confirmed that my brother in law has in fact had an affair with an 18 year old and also tried to get back together with her mother after she broke it off with him last year. But with that, we already knew it was true because that's just how he is. He is also still talking to my sister like crap too which hasn't changed either. So in all honesty, nothing has changed and I think she should stay where she is and deal with it. She knew what she was getting into and I even talked to her before she went back with him. But apparently she doesn't listen unless it's right in front of her and has already smacked her in the face with a brick.
I love my sister. I really do. But to go back like she did and wants out again for the exact same reason and instance, is just blowing my mind away. It really feels like no one truly cares for those kids except me, my estranged husband and my parents. My sister has been trying to hang her husband up to dry for a good while now and visa versa. All they care about is revenge and it is hurting the kids in the long run.
Some may find me to be cruel. Some may find me to be feeling like any other person would. My sister has made her choices, so my concern is for my niece and nephew now.
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