Selfishness

     So comes the day when the unexpected is in fact expected. My sister and her husband left for Pennsylvania without letting us say good - bye to the kids and then came back for a couple days. My dad told her that she was not to take the car he had bought but she did anyways. They planned on coming back just to get more stuff to take back with them and my dad flat out told her that she was to leave it here this time. Apparently my brother-in-law's vehicle broke down in Pennsylvania and the only ride back is a UHAUL. My sister has not spoken to us all day because she turns her phone off when she doesn't want to deal with us. Her husband let us know that they are leaving tomorrow morning if we want to come and say good-bye. 
     The problem is not us being able to say good-bye to the kids, it's about my grandma. She has been devastated over my sisters choices and mistakes ever since she got together with him when she left for Pennsylvania the first time, but to do it all over again is killing her. She is lonely enough as it is and not being courteous enough to go over and make her more important than their hate. They can be mad at us even though we are right all they want. That doesn't make them parents of the year. What are they teaching their kids? How to be deceptive and how to lie to get what you want. They don't care about us or the kids, they just care about themselves and it is the saddest thing.
     I just hope my sister knows that what happens now is all on her. It's no one's fault but theirs and they are the ones who have to deal with the consequences of their choices. The problem is, their children have to suffer for it too. :(  What parenting.